Well Julian has put me in charge of the honeymoon... and it's going to be my little project, and hopefully a surprise if I can keep it that way.

As he said "If you think it's because I'm just trying to get out of the planning, well, you wouldn't be entirely wrong." Hey, no arguments here! Besides, to give the man some credit, he has been pretty involved. While he's not agonising over centerpieces with me, he has taken on some good wedding planning duties.

Anyway, I've been doing research in places like Modern Bride. That wasn't a good idea as most of their recommendations are super-pricey and rather uninspired. But reading through Amazon reviews I was referred to some better books, and then to a website. Ohmigod some of these places look amazing. Just browsing through this website is going to give me plenty of leisure time I think. I'm also ordering this book for some ideas. I should really start a wedding books page here with reviews of some of the items I'm using. Another time perhaps.